bpdspock:

yo @everyone w an abusive piece of shit father

you are NOT required to love or ~appreciate~ your father

your father keeping a roof over your head/food on the table/whatever does not make him a person you are required to love or respect

if he abuses you, you are NOT required to forgive him. you are not required to love him. you are not required to respect him.

also know that you are not alone.